Like this a lot! My parents had a commitment not to lie to me and we were always able to ask questions. I have tried to do the same with my own child and with the kids at church. One of the things I always tell people is to answer the question that kids are actually asking, and let them guide the conversation. Kids may not need all the info we have about something quite yet. But they will let you know if they need more.
Just had my first kids (twins!) last year and this post came at the right time. Reminds me of what my parents tried to do raising me and I definitely think it helps prepare children for adulthood.
Congratulations! I’m so glad it was helpful. It’s been so rewarding to get to know our kids and how they think, what they need, their curiosities, etc. Beats raising them as little “obedient” robots. Best of luck with the babies! It goes fast (I’m sure you’ve been told one thousand times) but each phase gets more fun, in my opinion.
Like this a lot! My parents had a commitment not to lie to me and we were always able to ask questions. I have tried to do the same with my own child and with the kids at church. One of the things I always tell people is to answer the question that kids are actually asking, and let them guide the conversation. Kids may not need all the info we have about something quite yet. But they will let you know if they need more.
Yes! Kids are totally capable of guiding the conversation. It's important to take our cues from them as much as possible.
Just had my first kids (twins!) last year and this post came at the right time. Reminds me of what my parents tried to do raising me and I definitely think it helps prepare children for adulthood.
Congratulations! I’m so glad it was helpful. It’s been so rewarding to get to know our kids and how they think, what they need, their curiosities, etc. Beats raising them as little “obedient” robots. Best of luck with the babies! It goes fast (I’m sure you’ve been told one thousand times) but each phase gets more fun, in my opinion.
Thanks so much for letting me and Amy share in your space, Meredith! You are doing such vitally important work.